Spiritually Kinky: Creating the Path to Being Fully Seen, Deeply Felt & Wildly Free
Spiritually Kinky is a podcast about conscious creation, personal transformation, nervous system awareness, and reclaiming your authentic identity.
Hosted by Dustin Lea Wheeler, this show explores how to break inherited patterns, move beyond self-sabotage, and create a life aligned with who you truly are.
Dustin teaches the shift from living as the oldest version of your past self into the youngest version of your future self, helping listeners recognize the “Not-It Identity”—the survival identity formed in childhood to belong and stay safe—and step into their creative power.
But this isn’t your typical self-improvement podcast.
Welcome to Spiritually Kinky—the playground for your wild soul and untamed truth.
Here we ditch the masks, question old conditioning, and remember how powerful it is to be fully seen, deeply felt, and wildly free.
Around here we explore:
• Conscious creation & creator identity
• Breaking inherited patterns and generational conditioning
• Nervous system awareness and emotional intelligence
• Purpose, power, pleasure, and authentic self-expression
All with a wink… and a whip of wisdom.
If you’re ready to stop fixing yourself and start creating the life you were meant to live, welcome to the Spiritually Kinky revolution with Dustin Lea Wheeler. - it's time to play!
All with a wink… and a whip of wisdom.
Spiritually Kinky: Creating the Path to Being Fully Seen, Deeply Felt & Wildly Free
🎙️ Episode #36 The In-Between Is Where You Become Her
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This week cracked me open in a way I didn’t expect.
When I found a mass on my cat, Simba, every survival pattern my nervous system had ever learned surged to the surface—the grief, the spiraling, the urge to “borrow tomorrow’s sorrow” just to feel in control.
But here’s the truth most manifesting advice avoids:
You’re not failing.
You’re not regressing.
Your old identity is dissolving.
This episode reveals what actually happens in the in-between—the holy, uncomfortable, identity-shifting space where your future self begins to come online and your nervous system presents the patterns that are ready to be rewritten.
Inside, we explore:
✨ Why heavy emotions don’t block manifestation—they activate evolution
✨ How trauma biology disguises itself as intuition
✨ The unconscious patterns that rise during fear, grief, and uncertainty
✨ Why oscillation increases right before breakthroughs
✨ What it means to hold yourself in moments of deep unknown
✨ How identity-level creation differs from mindset work
✨ A guided future-self activation to recalibrate your system
This isn’t bypassing.
This isn’t mindset.
This is creative force becoming embodied.
If you’ve been stretched, shaken, grieving, or suspended between who you were and who you’re becoming, this episode is your reminder:
The in-between isn’t where you break.
It’s where you become her.
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The in-between is not where your life falls apart… it’s where your future self comes online.
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