Spiritually Kinky: Creating the Path to Being Fully Seen, Deeply Felt & Wildly Free
Spiritually Kinky is a podcast about conscious creation, personal transformation, nervous system awareness, and reclaiming your authentic identity.
Hosted by Dustin Lea Wheeler, this show explores how to break inherited patterns, move beyond self-sabotage, and create a life aligned with who you truly are.
Dustin teaches the shift from living as the oldest version of your past self into the youngest version of your future self, helping listeners recognize the “Not-It Identity”—the survival identity formed in childhood to belong and stay safe—and step into their creative power.
But this isn’t your typical self-improvement podcast.
Welcome to Spiritually Kinky—the playground for your wild soul and untamed truth.
Here we ditch the masks, question old conditioning, and remember how powerful it is to be fully seen, deeply felt, and wildly free.
Around here we explore:
• Conscious creation & creator identity
• Breaking inherited patterns and generational conditioning
• Nervous system awareness and emotional intelligence
• Purpose, power, pleasure, and authentic self-expression
All with a wink… and a whip of wisdom.
If you’re ready to stop fixing yourself and start creating the life you were meant to live, welcome to the Spiritually Kinky revolution with Dustin Lea Wheeler. - it's time to play!
All with a wink… and a whip of wisdom.
Episodes
63 episodes
🎙 Episode #61: The Erotic Tension of Becoming
What if the reason you feel exhausted…is because you keep trying to become one thing?Only healed.Only certain.Only powerful.Only “aligned.”But life doesn’t move in straight lines.Life...
🎙️ Episode #60 The Dangerous Lie of Alignment
What if the reason you feel stuck… isn’t because you’re broken — but because you’ve been taught to worship your emotions as truth?In this deep and emotionally raw episode, Dustin Wheeler explores the dangerous lie behind “feeling ...
🎙️ Episode #59 The Loneliest Part Of Becoming
What happens when life hurts… and you still have to choose whether you’re going to stay open?In this episode, Dustin Wheeler shares a deeply honest conversation about grief, emotional resilience, nervous system regulation, and the part o...
🎙️ Episode #58 The Lie of the Perfect Path
Why do so many people stay stuck waiting for the “right” decision?Why do high achievers overthink themselves into exhaustion… even when they deeply want more from life?Because most people unconsciously believe ther...
🎙️ Episode #57 (Part 3 of 3) Why You Go Back to the Same Patterns (Even When You Know Better)
You didn’t fail.You didn’t lose your progress.And nothing is wrong with you.So why does it feel like you keep going back?In this episode, we explore one of the most misunderstood parts of personal growth:Why c...
🎙️ Episode #56 (Part 2 of 3) You’re Not Broken… You’re Overloaded: Why Nothing Is Sticking
You’ve done the work.You’ve read the books, listened to the podcasts, and tried to “fix” yourself more times than you can count.So why does it still feel like nothing is fully changing?In this episode, we explore the real r...
🎙️ Episodet #55 The Lonely Path: The Part of Becoming No One Talks About
Most people will tell you that following your purpose feels aligned… expansive… exciting.But there’s a part they don’t talk about.The part where it gets quiet.Where the validation disappears.Where you start questioning eve...
🎙️ Episode #54 (Part 1 of 3) You’re Not Stuck… You’re Looping - And You Don’t Even See It
You don’t actually have a motivation problem.And you’re not stuck.But you are repeating something.In this episode, we break down the hidden pattern that keeps recreating the same emotional experiences in your life — no matt...
🎙️ Episode #53 Why You Feel Like Something Is Wrong With You (It’s Not What You Think)
There are seasons in life that don’t make senseThe quiet ones. The heavy ones.The ones where nothing is technically wrong…but everything in your body feels like it is.In this episode, I take you inside one...
🎙️ Episode #52 You Don’t Need to Heal — You Need to Decide
What if the reason manifestation isn’t working… has nothing to do with how much you’ve healed?What if the real reason you feel stuck… is because healing quietly became the place you’ve been hiding?In this episode...
🎙️ Episode #51 No One Talks About This Part — When Love, Loss, and Life Collide
Most personal development and manifestation advice will tell you to stay positive, shift your mindset, and keep your vibration high.But what about the moments when life feels heavy… raw… and completely out of your control?In this ...
🎙️ Episode #50 The Biggest Lie in Personal Development
What if the biggest lie in personal development is the belief that you must fix yourself before you can create the life you want?In Episode 50 of the Spiritually Kinky Podcast, Dustin Wheeler breaks down the hidden trap inside the self-h...
🎙️ Episode #49 Why Your Nervous System Resists The Life You Want (It’s Not Self-Sabotage)
Why does your nervous system resist the life you say you want?Most people believe they are the problem.But what if the real issue isn’t you—it’s the identity your nervous system built to keep you alive?In this episod...
🎙️ Episode #48 You’re Not the Problem. Your Nervous System Is Protecting You
Most people think they are the problem.But what if the real issue isn’t you — it’s the unconscious identity your nervous system built to survive?In this episode, Dustin Wheeler explains how your survival programming formed in earl...
🎙️ Episode #47 What To Do When Nothing Is Changing (The Truth No Coach Shares)
In this episode, I dismantle the high-vibe illusion sold across Instagram and TikTok and reveals the unsexy truth about conscious creation: it’s not about manifesting a life without storms. It’s about learning to face them without abandoning yo...
🎙️ Episode #46 When You’re Doing All The Work… And It Still Hurts
You can be doing all the nervous system work, shadow work, conscious creation practices… and it can still hurt.In this raw, grounded episode, Dustin Wheeler breaks the illusion of high-vibe spirituality and talks about what most coaches ...
🎙️ Episode #45 Stop Trying to Create a Pain-Free Life: Why Worth Is Blocking Your Wealth
What if the reason you’re stuck isn’t misalignment…but inner conflict?In this raw, honest episode, I unpack why so many good-hearted, conscious people struggle with money, ease, and expansion—despite doing all the personal d...
🎙️ Episode #44 Borrowing Tomorrow's Sorrow (Raw, Real & Here)
There are moments in life where you don’t need another mindset shift — you need permission to stay present inside the storm.In this raw, honest episode, I share what it’s been like walking alongside my cat, Simba, for months with a condi...
🎙️ Episode #43: Why Hustle Feels Safe (Until It Breaks You)
The survival identity hiding under ambitionHustle feels safe… until it owns you.Not because you’re weak.Not because you’re doing it wrong.But because hustle is a survival spell your nervous system learned a long tim...
🎙️ Episode #42 Manifestation Doesn’t Fail — Your Body Just Doesn’t Feel Safe Yet
If manifestation hasn’t worked the way you were promised…If vision boards, affirmations, and journaling feel powerful in theory but never quite land in your body…This episode is for you.In this deeply embodied conversation, Dusti...
🎙️ Episode #41: Your Nervous System Has a Shadow Kink
Your Nervous System Has a Shadow Kink (And It Was Born Out of Love)If you keep repeating the same patterns in relationships, money, work, or self-worth—this episode will change how you see yourself forever.In this episode, ...
🎙️ Episode #40 The Rise of the Integrated Empath & Why they are the Leaders the World Needs Right Now
The Rise of the Integrated Empath | Why Sensitive People Are the Leaders of What Comes NextHave you ever quietly wondered…Is this all there is?Do I even belong in this world?Why do I love so deeply — and still f...
🎙️ Episode #39 Why Manifestation Isn’t Working (It’s Not You — It’s the Structure)
If you’ve tried affirmations, visualization, gratitude, “raising your vibration,” or acting as if — and still feel stuck, exhausted, or oscillating between hope and collapse — this episode will feel like relief.Because the truth is:Y...
🎙️ Episode #38 Awareness is the Alchemy
Most people believe they’re stuck because something is wrong with them.That they need to heal more.Fix more.Think better thoughts.Manifest harder.But what if the problem isn’t you —what if it’s the unconsc...
🎙️ Episode #37 Attachment Isn’t Manifestation: Why You’re Stuck (And How to Finally Shift)
Why does wanting more feel dangerous?Why do your manifestations stall, oscillate, or collapse?Why does manifesting a specific person ALWAYS create chaos, contraction, or confusion?Because you’re not manifesting from the su...