Spiritually Kinky: Creating the Path to Being Fully Seen, Deeply Felt & Wildly Free
Spiritually Kinky is a podcast about conscious creation, personal transformation, nervous system awareness, and reclaiming your authentic identity.
Hosted by Dustin Lea Wheeler, this show explores how to break inherited patterns, move beyond self-sabotage, and create a life aligned with who you truly are.
Dustin teaches the shift from living as the oldest version of your past self into the youngest version of your future self, helping listeners recognize the “Not-It Identity”—the survival identity formed in childhood to belong and stay safe—and step into their creative power.
But this isn’t your typical self-improvement podcast.
Welcome to Spiritually Kinky—the playground for your wild soul and untamed truth.
Here we ditch the masks, question old conditioning, and remember how powerful it is to be fully seen, deeply felt, and wildly free.
Around here we explore:
• Conscious creation & creator identity
• Breaking inherited patterns and generational conditioning
• Nervous system awareness and emotional intelligence
• Purpose, power, pleasure, and authentic self-expression
All with a wink… and a whip of wisdom.
If you’re ready to stop fixing yourself and start creating the life you were meant to live, welcome to the Spiritually Kinky revolution with Dustin Lea Wheeler. - it's time to play!
All with a wink… and a whip of wisdom.
Episodes
81 episodes
🎙️ Episode 79 You Keep Rehearsing What You Don’t Want: Why Focus Shapes Your Reality
What have you consciously chosen...and what are you actually rehearsing with your attention?Because those might be two completely different things.You can choose a thriving business and spend most of your attention monitoring why ...
🎙️ Episode 78 You Didn’t Actually Choose That: Why Your Goals Keep You Stuck
What if the goals you're working so hard to achieve aren't actually what you want?We tend to assume that because we set a goal, we made a conscious choice.But look underneath many of our goals and you'll find something else...
🎙️ Episode #77 Unfamiliar Doesn’t Mean Unaligned: Why Your New Life Feels Wrong
What if the fact that your new life feels unfamiliar isn’t evidence that you’re on the wrong path?Maybe it feels unfamiliar because you’ve finally stopped recreating what you already know.In this episode of Spiritually Kinky™, Dus...
🎙️ Episode #76 You Don’t Need to Know Yet: How to Trust Yourself Without Certainty
What if your need to know isn't actually about finding the truth—but about trying to make uncertainty feel safe?We have access to more information than any generation before us.And yet with all those answers available, many of us ...
🎙️ Episode #75 Presence Is the New Currency: What Is Your Attention Creating?
Your attention may be one of the most valuable things you possess.And everyone wants a piece of it.We live in a world with more access to one another, more information, faster answers, and more convenience than ever before....
🎙️ Episode #74 The Kink of Needing Someone: How to Love Without Losing Yourself
What if needing someone isn’t weakness—but one of the deepest expressions of self-trust?We’ve been taught to celebrate independence. To become whole on our own. To stop needing validation. To detach.But what happens when in...
🎙️ Episode #73 When Healing Becomes Self-Punishment: Stop Fixing Yourself & Start Creating
What if your healing journey has quietly become another way to punish yourself?There comes a point where self-awareness can stop creating freedom and start becoming self-surveillance.You know the pattern. You recogniz...
🎙️ Episode #72 What If It Fails? Creating Without Guarantees
What if it fails?That question sounds like it belongs to business, but it doesn’t.It belongs to becoming. It belongs to love. It belongs to intuition. It belongs to every moment where you stand at the edge of something new and the...
🎙️ Episode #71 Attachment vs. Attraction: Why Chasing Love Pushes It Away
Most of us were never taught how to create secure relationships.We were taught how to chase them.In this episode of Spiritually Kinky, Dustin Lea Wheeler unpacks the psychology behind attachment and attraction, revealing why the i...
🎙️ Episode #70 Are You Creating From Your Wounds... Or Your Wholeness? | Michael Lowe
Most people think they're creating their future.What if they're actually recreating their past?In this episode, Dustin Wheeler welcomes back Michael Lowe for one of the most honest conversations yet about rel...
🎙️ Episode #69 What Creators Do When Life Breaks Them Open | Behind Our Lies with Corvaa
Every creator eventually faces a moment when life asks a difficult question:Are you still going to create?Not after you've healed.Not after life settles down.Not after everything makes sense.Now.In this power...
🎙️ Episode #68 The Light Behind Michael Myers | James Jude Courtney on Shadow, Consciousness & Human Potential
What if the actor behind one of cinema's most terrifying characters is also one of its most conscious?In this episode of Spiritually Kinky, I sit down with James Jude Courtney, the man behind Michael Myers in the Halloween
🎙️ Episode #67 Knowing Better Isn’t Changing Your Life
Most people think their life will change once they understand themselves better.It won’t.Because knowing isn’t what changes your life.Building does.In this episode, I share a behind-the-scenes look at a week that did...
🎙️ Episode #66 How To Collapse The Illusion You’ve Been Building Your Reality From
What if your life isn’t stuck…what if it’s reinforced?You say you want more freedom.More peace.More truth.A life that actually feels like yours.But the moment you get close to it…you hesitate.You soften your voi...
🎙️ Episode #65 What Are You Afraid to Lose? The Real Reason You Keep Choosing the Same Life
What are you actually afraid to lose?Because it’s probably not what you think.You say you want more freedom, more peace, more truth, a life that actually feels like yours. But the moment you get close to it, you hesitate. Y...
🎙️ Episode #64 The Cage Nobody Talks About: Why Success, Healing & Achievement Still Leave You Feeling Trapped
What if the thing you think is trapping you isn't actually what's trapping you?Most people spend years trying to improve the conditions inside their cage.A better job.More money.A healthier relationship.
🎙️ Episode #63 Why You Don't Trust Yourself (And How to Rebuild It)
Most people think they struggle with trust because they've been hurt by other people.But what if the relationship that's hurting the most is the one you have with yourself?In this episode of Spiritually Kinky, I'm exploring...
🎙️ Episode #62 The Secret Fear Nobody Wants To Admit
What if the thing you've spent your entire life trying to fix... was never broken?In this deeply honest episode, Dustin Wheeler explores one of the most painful and universal fears many people carry in silence:The fear that...
🎙 Episode #61: The Erotic Tension of Becoming
What if the reason you feel exhausted…is because you keep trying to become one thing?Only healed.Only certain.Only powerful.Only “aligned.”But life doesn’t move in straight lines.Life...
🎙️ Episode #60 The Dangerous Lie of Alignment
What if the reason you feel stuck… isn’t because you’re broken — but because you’ve been taught to worship your emotions as truth?In this deep and emotionally raw episode, Dustin Wheeler explores the dangerous lie behind “feeling ...
🎙️ Episode #59 The Loneliest Part Of Becoming
What happens when life hurts… and you still have to choose whether you’re going to stay open?In this episode, Dustin Wheeler shares a deeply honest conversation about grief, emotional resilience, nervous system regulation, and the part o...
🎙️ Episode #58 The Lie of the Perfect Path
Why do so many people stay stuck waiting for the “right” decision?Why do high achievers overthink themselves into exhaustion… even when they deeply want more from life?Because most people unconsciously believe ther...
🎙️ Episode #57 (Part 3 of 3) Why You Go Back to the Same Patterns (Even When You Know Better)
You didn’t fail.You didn’t lose your progress.And nothing is wrong with you.So why does it feel like you keep going back?In this episode, we explore one of the most misunderstood parts of personal growth:Why c...
🎙️ Episode #56 (Part 2 of 3) You’re Not Broken… You’re Overloaded: Why Nothing Is Sticking
You’ve done the work.You’ve read the books, listened to the podcasts, and tried to “fix” yourself more times than you can count.So why does it still feel like nothing is fully changing?In this episode, we explore the real r...
🎙️ Episode #55 The Lonely Path: The Part of Becoming No One Talks About
Most people will tell you that following your purpose feels aligned… expansive… exciting.But there’s a part they don’t talk about.The part where it gets quiet.Where the validation disappears.Where you start questioning eve...