Spiritually Kinky: Creating the Path to Being Fully Seen, Deeply Felt & Wildly Free
Spiritually Kinky is a podcast about conscious creation, personal transformation, nervous system awareness, and reclaiming your authentic identity.
Hosted by Dustin Lea Wheeler, this show explores how to break inherited patterns, move beyond self-sabotage, and create a life aligned with who you truly are.
Dustin teaches the shift from living as the oldest version of your past self into the youngest version of your future self, helping listeners recognize the “Not-It Identity”—the survival identity formed in childhood to belong and stay safe—and step into their creative power.
But this isn’t your typical self-improvement podcast.
Welcome to Spiritually Kinky—the playground for your wild soul and untamed truth.
Here we ditch the masks, question old conditioning, and remember how powerful it is to be fully seen, deeply felt, and wildly free.
Around here we explore:
• Conscious creation & creator identity
• Breaking inherited patterns and generational conditioning
• Nervous system awareness and emotional intelligence
• Purpose, power, pleasure, and authentic self-expression
All with a wink… and a whip of wisdom.
If you’re ready to stop fixing yourself and start creating the life you were meant to live, welcome to the Spiritually Kinky revolution with Dustin Lea Wheeler. - it's time to play!
All with a wink… and a whip of wisdom.
Episodes
56 episodes
🎙️ Podcast #54 (Part #1 of #3) You’re Not Stuck… You’re Looping - And You Don’t Even See It
You don’t actually have a motivation problem.And you’re not stuck.But you are repeating something.In this episode, we break down the hidden pattern that keeps recreating the same emotional experiences in your life — no matt...
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Episode 54
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10:46
Why You Feel Like Something Is Wrong With You (It’s Not What You Think)
There are seasons in life that don’t make senseThe quiet ones. The heavy ones.The ones where nothing is technically wrong…but everything in your body feels like it is.In this episode, I take you inside one...
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Episode 53
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11:56
🎙️ Podcast #52 You Don’t Need to Heal — You Need to Decide
What if the reason manifestation isn’t working… has nothing to do with how much you’ve healed?What if the real reason you feel stuck… is because healing quietly became the place you’ve been hiding?In this episode...
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Episode 52
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7:08
🎙️ Podcast #51 No One Talks About This Part — When Love, Loss, and Life Collide
Most personal development and manifestation advice will tell you to stay positive, shift your mindset, and keep your vibration high.But what about the moments when life feels heavy… raw… and completely out of your control?In this ...
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Episode 51
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6:24
🎙️ Podcast #50 The Biggest Lie in Personal Development
What if the biggest lie in personal development is the belief that you must fix yourself before you can create the life you want?In Episode 50 of the Spiritually Kinky Podcast, Dustin Wheeler breaks down the hidden trap inside the self-h...
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Episode 50
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10:46
🎙️ Podcast #49 Why Your Nervous System Resists The Life You Want (It’s Not Self-Sabotage)
Why does your nervous system resist the life you say you want?Most people believe they are the problem.But what if the real issue isn’t you—it’s the identity your nervous system built to keep you alive?In this episod...
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Episode 49
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9:12
🎙️ Podcast #48 You’re Not the Problem. Your Nervous System Is Protecting You
Most people think they are the problem.But what if the real issue isn’t you — it’s the unconscious identity your nervous system built to survive?In this episode, Dustin Wheeler explains how your survival programming formed in earl...
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Episode 48
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6:31
🎙️ Podcast #47 What To Do When Nothing Is Changing (The Truth No Coach Shares)
In this episode, I dismantle the high-vibe illusion sold across Instagram and TikTok and reveals the unsexy truth about conscious creation: it’s not about manifesting a life without storms. It’s about learning to face them without abandoning yo...
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Episode 47
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7:13
🎙️ Podcast #46 When You’re Doing All The Work… And It Still Hurts
You can be doing all the nervous system work, shadow work, conscious creation practices… and it can still hurt.In this raw, grounded episode, Dustin Wheeler breaks the illusion of high-vibe spirituality and talks about what most coaches ...
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Episode 46
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7:17
🎙️ Podcast #45 Stop Trying to Create a Pain-Free Life: Why Worth Is Blocking Your Wealth
What if the reason you’re stuck isn’t misalignment…but inner conflict?In this raw, honest episode, I unpack why so many good-hearted, conscious people struggle with money, ease, and expansion—despite doing all the personal d...
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Episode 45
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10:09
🎙️ Podcast #44 Borrowing Tomorrow's Sorrow (Raw, Real & Here)
There are moments in life where you don’t need another mindset shift — you need permission to stay present inside the storm.In this raw, honest episode, I share what it’s been like walking alongside my cat, Simba, for months with a condi...
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Episode 44
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6:11
🎙️ Episode #43: Why Hustle Feels Safe (Until It Breaks You)
The survival identity hiding under ambitionHustle feels safe… until it owns you.Not because you’re weak.Not because you’re doing it wrong.But because hustle is a survival spell your nervous system learned a long tim...
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Episode 43
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9:38
🎙️ Episode #42 Manifestation Doesn’t Fail — Your Body Just Doesn’t Feel Safe Yet
If manifestation hasn’t worked the way you were promised…If vision boards, affirmations, and journaling feel powerful in theory but never quite land in your body…This episode is for you.In this deeply embodied conversation, Dusti...
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Episode 42
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9:58
🎙️ Episode #41: Your Nervous System Has a Shadow Kink
Your Nervous System Has a Shadow Kink (And It Was Born Out of Love)If you keep repeating the same patterns in relationships, money, work, or self-worth—this episode will change how you see yourself forever.In this episode, ...
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Episode 41
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15:29
🎙️ Episode #40 The Rise of the Integrated Empath & Why they are the Leaders the World Needs Right Now
The Rise of the Integrated Empath | Why Sensitive People Are the Leaders of What Comes NextHave you ever quietly wondered…Is this all there is?Do I even belong in this world?Why do I love so deeply — and still f...
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Episode 40
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9:42
🎙️ Episode #39 Why Manifestation Isn’t Working (It’s Not You — It’s the Structure)
If you’ve tried affirmations, visualization, gratitude, “raising your vibration,” or acting as if — and still feel stuck, exhausted, or oscillating between hope and collapse — this episode will feel like relief.Because the truth is:Y...
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Episode 39
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17:40
🎙️ Episode #38 Awareness is the Alchemy
Most people believe they’re stuck because something is wrong with them.That they need to heal more.Fix more.Think better thoughts.Manifest harder.But what if the problem isn’t you —what if it’s the unconsc...
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12:22
🎙️ Episode #37 Attachment Isn’t Manifestation: Why You’re Stuck (And How to Finally Shift)
Why does wanting more feel dangerous?Why do your manifestations stall, oscillate, or collapse?Why does manifesting a specific person ALWAYS create chaos, contraction, or confusion?Because you’re not manifesting from the su...
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Episode 37
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19:27
🎙️ Episode #36 The In-Between Is Where You Become Her
This week cracked me open in a way I didn’t expect.When I found a mass on my cat, Simba, every survival pattern my nervous system had ever learned surged to the surface—the grief, the spiraling, the urge to “borrow tomorrow’s sorrow” jus...
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Episode 36
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14:04
🎙️ Episode #35 Wanting More Isn’t Greedy — Staying Small Is
Most heart-led creators aren’t struggling because they’re unworthy or incapable — they’re struggling because they were programmed to fear their own desire.This episode is a firestarter.We’re breaking down the moral lie th...
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Episode 35
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21:38
🎙️ Episode #34 Delusional or Divine? The Truth Visionaries Never Admit Out Loud
In this raw and powerful episode, we expose the truth every visionary hides:You’re not delusional — you’re remembering.We break down the difference between delusion and divine vision, explore the power of innocence, and rev...
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Episode 34
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11:18
🎙️ Episode #33 The Sacred Kink of Being Seen
✨ The Sacred Kink of Being Seen There’s a secret desire almost every creator carries… a hunger… a whisper… a tremble in the body that says:“I want to be seen.”Not the polished v...
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Episode 33
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9:15
🎙️ Episode #32 The Magnetic Shift: Success Isn't Personal, It's Structural
Are you done with the hustle that leaves you drained & disappointed? In this episode we dive deep into the architecture of your results — because success isn’t about you trying harder, it’s about your structure doing the h...
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Episode 32
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8:36
🎙️ Episode #31 Choosing Anyway: The Messy, Magical Middle of Becoming
What if you’re not off track…What if the chaos, the fatigue, the resistance—is exactly where your next level is being born?In this raw and real episode of the Spiritually Kinky Podcast, I take you into the holy, messy middle...
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Episode 31
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15:38
🎙️ Episode #30 Feral Feminine: The Power of Your Unleashed Essence
You weren’t too much. You were never meant to be tame.This episode is your invitation to drop the leash and run wild through the truth of who you are.Host Dustin Wheeler, founder of Spiritually Kinky™ and Magnetic...
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Episode 30
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