Spiritually Kinky: Creating the Path to Being Fully Seen, Deeply Felt & Wildly Free
Spiritually Kinky is a podcast about conscious creation, personal transformation, nervous system awareness, and reclaiming your authentic identity.
Hosted by Dustin Lea Wheeler, this show explores how to break inherited patterns, move beyond self-sabotage, and create a life aligned with who you truly are.
Dustin teaches the shift from living as the oldest version of your past self into the youngest version of your future self, helping listeners recognize the “Not-It Identity”—the survival identity formed in childhood to belong and stay safe—and step into their creative power.
But this isn’t your typical self-improvement podcast.
Welcome to Spiritually Kinky—the playground for your wild soul and untamed truth.
Here we ditch the masks, question old conditioning, and remember how powerful it is to be fully seen, deeply felt, and wildly free.
Around here we explore:
• Conscious creation & creator identity
• Breaking inherited patterns and generational conditioning
• Nervous system awareness and emotional intelligence
• Purpose, power, pleasure, and authentic self-expression
All with a wink… and a whip of wisdom.
If you’re ready to stop fixing yourself and start creating the life you were meant to live, welcome to the Spiritually Kinky revolution with Dustin Lea Wheeler. - it's time to play!
All with a wink… and a whip of wisdom.
Spiritually Kinky: Creating the Path to Being Fully Seen, Deeply Felt & Wildly Free
🎙️ Podcast #44 Borrowing Tomorrow's Sorrow (Raw, Real & Here)
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There are moments in life where you don’t need another mindset shift — you need permission to stay present inside the storm.
In this raw, honest episode, I share what it’s been like walking alongside my cat, Simba, for months with a condition that can’t be cured — only managed. What happens when the treatments that once worked stop working? When the options narrow? When love doesn’t come with leverage?
This episode is about borrowing tomorrow’s sorrow — the quiet suffering that happens when your mind fast-forwards into worst-case scenarios and your nervous system reacts as if the future is already here.
We talk about:
- Living with inevitability while still loving fully
- The helplessness of not being able to fix what you love
- How the nervous system confuses imagination with reality
- Why presence doesn’t erase pain — but does prevent suffering twice
- Choosing to stay when control is gone
This isn’t a lesson from the other side.
It’s a moment from the middle.
If you’re navigating chronic illness, anticipatory grief, uncertainty, or loving something you can’t save — this episode is for you.
You are not broken.
You are the creative force.
And even now, you still get to choose presence.
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